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#28 RED FLAG (If they treat others badly)


" They would do to others what they can do to you."

I am yet to see a very clear indicator than this. How they behave, react and treat others; is just a very good indicator of who your intending/engaged spouse is. How those he/she relates around other people??? Take note! That's how to know their true personality. And if they treat people, especially people they have an edge over; be it a junior colleague, staff worker, maid, or any other persons like this: badly; I guess you now know what to do...

This is an indicator that works like crazy. It is a litmus test that you van bank on. Bother less about how they treat you at the initial stage... Instead watch out for how they treat or respond to either the driver, waitresses, bar man; others generally. There are no rule to this, but if they have issues, it will reflect on these their relationship with others. Do they use demanding words on people; do they talk down on people for innocently 'crossing their path;' do they get verbally abusive because they are inconveniented??? You don't need to do too much screening... If they are any of this kind of person, nature will fish them out effortlessly. And when you see that, you should understand what's up and how to 'stylishly' get yourself out of that up and coming mess.

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