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#27 LOVE FOR A REASON


"Only a purposeful relationship can weather all storms."


These quotes above, is from my personal love rule book. Well, let me let you in on a few detail; I have some rule in this my Love law book. And they are to me unbreakable: should I want a happy, lasting love life. So, you have these, and I believe more will be spilling out as the blog goes on.

Love is..... What comes to heart next is what??? I believe we both know that answer. But you know that that's a very wrong way to go about this subject. Love, I believe, is a fundamental need. More so, the romantic version; is a fundamental need in our adult life. But because of a lot of things we've seem and heard; especially from the media, has made us have some hidden expectations. And when we don't realise this, we are very likely to lose out on what a proper Love relationship should look like.

Here is it, if you want to love someone, "know why you are loving them and put those things down somewhere: so as to read them often." You see, I discovered something, that when we have reasons, we have continuity. But whether those reasons for loving who you choose to love; are concrete or not, is up to you.

Whenever we have a strong reason, irrespective of the 'weather' or circumstances, we do try to stay till the last. The same when we have a reason for loving someone. And as long as those reasons stay, the love doesn't die out! It may be shaken or moved by few circumstances ( and this is very normal), but it wouldn't be found wanting at all. Let loving someone be attached to reasons. Do your love life like this and you will enjoy yourself and the ship to the maximum. Or don't you trust your reasoning abilities???

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