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This is a sense of a reflection of who an individual thinks he is. The patriachy of men with influence living or gone have a strong sense of this quality. There be some other who were disasterous in their executions as they think themselves to be something or someone they are not; Hitler readily come to mind on this one. He thinks the Jews were the bad blood that needs to be terminated from the surface of the earth. He thought he could monarchise the world again.   What you think you are shapes the way you think, see and do things with yourself.  I myself wouldn't have started a blog if I didnt think myself to be a writter. Some of yhe things we do are influenced by our sense of perception. The people that become successful have have to have been seeing themselves in that light before it became a reality. Many identity today have been bartered by wrong influences and environment. But have come to realise that irrespective of the circumstance, Life has a way of always revealing...

ARE YOU A CONFIDENT PERSON??? OR DO YOU KNOW A CONFIDENT PERSON??? Confidence For All is written by someone who's had personal experience with this magical attitude. Yes, I call it magical because that's what it is. I became successful just by this singular act. I added assertion into my lifestyle, and woo-lah, everything changed 360° . It’s what I've practiced and have come to appreciate; so much, that it’s now a core flavor to everything I do now. Confidence would definitely wow you beyond your wildest imagination. In this piece, I broke down what no one would have likely ever told you about being assertive. Confidence For All is a masterpiece from someone, who's practiced this attitude betimes. So, everything I share in here, were straight right from my own firsthand experience. Its not something I read somewhere or was told by somebody else. This subject is something I discovered myself, and I deem it fit to share it with YOU. Are you the one am talking a...

THEY SAID ONLY 20℅ CONTROLS OVER 80% OF OUR WORLD'S AFFAIR. THUS, I NEED TO SAY SOME THINGS TO THESE SET OF PEOPLE. THEY ARE THE ONES I INTEND THIS PIECE FOR! WE NEED TO TALK. Truths are bitter! And also, have you noticed that bitter things, like herbs, were never meant to be sweet? Yet, they do us more good than those other sweet things. This is the same thing with truths; and its what those that love you never hide from you! Becoming a truth lover will really help you on the long run. Because such people fare in life better! The Truth of Life: how to live happy is a blunt book in series. This one is a 5 chapter book, and it conceals some truth that will help you to live a stress-free life. And sincerely, ignorance of some of the things I shared in this Life Vol.1 could just be the reason you are still living short of the life of your dream. This beautiful piece could just be that much needed ladder-bridge to do a crossover. Here, discover for yourself some truths, that: 1...

"Get the original from the onset, no matter the price." Originality pays off! Pretence and immitation are quite stressful. And that's a big turn off for me, don't know about you. What it takes to be real, at the end of the day, is not as tasking as that of those who are making it look real. Whatever you can't take, don't be afraid to be real about it. In fact, you do yourself a great ton of good when you do your things this way. Never try to make another feel good at your own expense. Be that person who can stand for what he/she believes. Don't be out there trying out constumes just to look acceptable. Be YOU, be REAL and be UNAPOLOGETIC about this. Live your life the way you know best and don't summit to the opinion of others. We have enough fakes already, and we are seeing how ineffective they can be. Fake don't solve life's real problems. They are even a part of it. They end up being of no value. So, you need to start staying true to y...

"I play more than anyone that I've meet" The truth is that if you frequent this blog, you may have believed I'm a very serious kind of person. Though, I approach life with seriousness, yet I'm a very light hearted person. I thought to myself that you should also know that life is a place meant to be fun filled. I can play for forever provided all things are in proper place. Because I play intelligently. I would not be playing at the expense of something that is of grave consequence(you get me?). I live a life full of fun on a daily basis because it enhances my mental health. So, irrespective of who you are or where you are at in life, you must have fun senses and use it to enhance your life. I could play a game, listen to music, watch movies or follow up entertaining shows all day provided it beyters my mental and emotional health. So, you need to be a fun lover because it can help you see the bright side of life all the time. Don't be so caught in the mi...

"Our Mind conditions things a lot" The mind is a reflection of who we are. And I for one, evaluate people by looking at their actions which reflects their mind. So from day one, I am able to have an idea of who people are. But you know what, the mindset is another different topic. The mind uses apps or programs like our phones and computer to save things, and this is what we refer as mindset. This things could be an event, an emotion, a gesture, a group of people, e.t.c. Our mind sets this things to mean something and then saves it. So that whenever it now sees that thing, it just gives look for the file, reads it and then interprets. But there is a cause for concern here. And its not in the way the mind works, rather it those saved files that are erroneously sold to us possibly while we were just little or just starting to get to meet Life.Those were days when we knew almost next to nothing. And the problem is that the mindset that was sold to us then still remains with...

"Confidence makes you comfortable in your skin" I am a very Confident person(I think I say it now all time, lol). And I'm a great beneficiary of this great attitude. I live my life by my own rule and this has eliminated a lot of stress for me. I don't try to fit in and those that tries to sell me those pro-conformity message, I stayed far from them. Maybe I should even use thks post to tell my message. First of I love myself and I can't try looking like someone else(those were days before I meet with Confidence). I'm cool with being ME and all of this is thanks to this magical attitude. I don't listen to just anyhow advice; I only listen to my mentors or someone who have proved him or herself. So, I don't fall a prey to wrong counsel or of wrong counsellor. If I deem you not fit to counsel me, I would heed those words said. I know a lot of people have issues with this, but that's how I keep my sanity. And neither I'm I sorry for this(okay ...

"Fear makes us do stupid things." Healthy Fears are good, but they are not what I'm talking about in today's post. I was a fearless person until I was confronted by someone who consistently monitored me for years and launch against me some straregic attack. Ever since, I noticed one thing, Fear became a part of me from that time hence. The attack was a severe one and the things that I went through after that time, almost ruined my healthy lifestyle. Here are some facts that I discovered about Fear: a. Once it enters, it doesn't leave. Haven't you meet fearful people before? b. Fear destroys. Its does you no good. c. It trys to overpower the person it resides in. d. Fear don't leave unless you consciously on yourself to ensure it now fears you. And this is where I'm going. Fear is like a cancer, the longer it stays the much the damages it causes. So, the earlier you kick it out, the best for you. Your fear needs to now fear you! Because it i...

"Say the same thing over a hundred times but in different ways." You don't have to be everywhere- no, have a niche. If there are three different things, you will love one above the rest. Identify your area of concentration(s) and literally breathe there. These region(s) should be the place(s) you slspend majority of your time. Fish don't survive on land. Understand the 'get out of your comfort zone' concept properly. Here, I am talking about playing to one's strength. Though avoiding laziness and complacency is a must. Don't confuse that message. The place that you'll thrive are those that enhance you and suites the way you are already wired. Quit trying to be the Jack of all trade- it only messes people up. You shouldn't be completely in the dark about certain things, especially, as there are lot of information available today. But at the end of the day, it is what you know about those your area(s) of concentrationall that really counts....

Change the statusquo if its not working! Too many look alikes kills both creative and productive. And Immitators only live in shadows. Every one is differentt and unique. But why is it that people still expect us to live a like? If you can't stand on what is right by you, even if its not the popular opinion, then you will have problems with Success. To make a mark in this our world, you need to literally Stand-Out. This includes being different. Because its this our uniqueness that make us different from the crowd. Viz-a-viz, uniqueness and being different works hand in hand. So, to be different, you need to keep your uniqueness! Learn to keep your uniqueness and keep it well, because that's what gives you a brand. Don't try to plagiarize, just do YOU. Its that uniqueness that helps us in staying relevant. If you blend in, you will only remain in the crowd. And what happens is that you get lost in betwixt their mediocrities. So, for you to Stand-Out, you've got ...

When you solve problems, your rewards are endless. This is the secret to becoming successful. My Financial Mentor once said that the skill of the future is the Problem Solving Skill. And you know what, I discover that every problem has a solution. Or should I say that a lot of times, Problems have Solutions. Imagine being poor and thus despised. The solution is to become Financially Intelligent so that that can help solve the lack of money problem. This will in turn solve the problem of being despised. The problem with a lot of us is that we love to dodge from problems. And likes pilling them up until they become choking. Instead of confronting them, we prefer to keep them for later. But does time really solves problems? From henceforth, try become a solution to every and any problem that's relevant to you. Before they even show up, confront them. By doing this, you'll be able to add some intrinsic value to your life. Its something that I practise and it adds a great qual...

Don't just live for the sake of existing........ Live with meaning. Plot tommorrow's plan today and start that journey right away. The truth is like one of those James Bond theme song- 'Tomorrow never dies.' For you to be ahead and successful, you must be able to see your tomorrow today and plan for it. Because at the end of the day, tomorrow will always be there before everyone. And those who dream and work about their tomorrow today will definitely have what they've always been envisioning happen in their today. Its only a matter of time. More so, if you don't prepare yourself for tomorrow now, then when that tomorrow turns today, you will get nothing meaningful. The law of sowing and reaping is a law of nature. What you put in or didn't put in today will double up in result by the time tomorrow meets with you. Investing now for tomorrow is just the wise thing to do. The tomorrow you don't want to reap, don't sow the seed right now. Create y...

Life is a journey, so it isn't static. We are always having a destination in mind per time. And today, you are somewhere, so, where are you now? The decisions you have being making all this while is just why you are where you are. So again, currently where are you??? The concept of life that makes me laugh is that life is meant to make us stronger and more mature. So, everything that happen to us is to bring out this two things. And I'll say it again the more mature and stronger we are, the more life treats us with respect. I am never afraid of what life brings before me after I had that understanding. Today it is either you are on course or off course to that your dream destination. And if you are on the wrong road, you know that its never possible to arrive home. Start making U-turns today for you to experience that life that you'll be proud of. No one will do this for you. The ball has always been in your court!!! #MisterAuthor